A Real Connection
For me, the connection between me and my subs/slaves is about mind, body & spirit. Yes, it’s erotic and so very intense. Our connection can be spiritual as well. I believe it’s a natural occurrence when a Mistress and submissive click on every possible level. It simply reaches a point of intensity that most have not experienced before. It transcends that of most marriages.
This can only happen if you are open to it and want it. I cannot make you open yourself to me at these deep, meaningful levels. You may be nervous about entering into such a meaningful relationship. Especially if you are accustomed to stereotypical M/s connections. This will not be like that.
My Musings
This is a topic I have given a lot of thought to. Because of my own spiritual journey it seems natural that my relationship with you would develop an aspect of spirituality. Upon reaching adulthood, I chose to detach from any specific religion and pursue my own path. It’s important to me to help people as I can. That’s true whether I meet you as a friend, a family member or a client.
I discovered that I have been able to do that in my work as a phone Mistress. For you, I offer caring, compassion, insight, and intellect. You can talk to me about anything. Come to me for comfort or clarity. I care that you receive what you need to satisfy your submissive and fetish needs. I provide that to you. But you will be aware that I am more than a woman you call for erotic purposes. may A purely sexual relationship may not even be what you are seeking.
Enlightenment
You may be reading this and feeling some doubt. Thinking, “What’s her angle here?” I don’t have one. There is no Mistress persona with me. I am a lifestyle Mistress who has found that being highly intelligent, dominant and caring are enough to bring you under my control firmly. You will want to serve me. You will want to do that which will make me proud of you.
There is no reason to be afraid of this. It’s likely that as our relationship deepens, you will develop feelings for me. That is perfectly fine. You are supposed to love your Mistress. I love my submissives and slaves. That’s because I open my heart to making them a part of my life, even though we will never meet in person. It just doesn’t matter. You and I can become connected at a level you feel spiritually as well.
Reading this is a start. You will probably find it helpful to listen to one of my audios on this subject. Here is a link to Owned by a Caring Mistress. You can also read more of my thoughts on Loving your Mistress here.
This may be a whole new idea for you. Take some time to think about the possibilities. Check out the links above. If you have questions for me, use the contact form on this website. I’ll be happy to answer them.
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When i originally read this blog post 48 or so months ago, i didn’t understand how someone could develop, deep, emotional connection and yes LOVE for their Domme. Over time, i confessed i was developing a deep, deep connection with you that felt like Love. You assured me it was ok and that my feelings were normal. my trust in you allowed me to open up even more, which you encouraged. Over time, those feelings have grown, and now i can say they are different but genuine and extremely authentic. Your ownership of me and my deep connection to You, gives our dynamic a deep connection. It feels as though there is an invisible leash around me, once it was just around my cock & balls, then it was around my neck also….now it does feel that that leash is wrapped tightly around my soul also.
I like that you did read this post before we developed our relationship to the degree it is now. You have come so far in your slave training, j.
And, as you are aware, I still feel it is appropriate that you love your Goddess. So…good boy.
Yes, We can only be real with each other. That is the way I have to be with people and apparently that is also the way you have to be with people too. Is this a relationship better than marriage? Well, either way it is wonderful and unique. You are so very dear to me.
Sweetie, I am real with you. But I’m real with everyone in my life. I’m not sure what you mean. It is wonderful though. How long has it been again?
Oh yes…nearly 12 years!!!