chastity-locked up and loving it. blog post by elitedomme, grace coventry

Taking Denial to an Extreme

In case you couldn’t tell, I adore chastity and denial. The two fetishes do not need to be combined for me to enjoy them. Many of my erotic audios are on this topic. Of course I’m going to put energy into something that excites me.

I want to focus on chastity in this post. It’s what happens when you take denial to an extreme. Because I like to lock you into a cage and take away any possibility of you giving yourself sexual pleasure until I release you. Why, you ask? You would only ask that if you have not yet experienced the incredible pleasure of chastity.

Why I Adore Chastity

When I was new in the adult industry, I subcontracted for a renowned phone sex company that specialized in FemDom and fetish calls. Their training department did not yet exist, so I relied on my personal BDSM experience and the experience of ladies who had been doing phone Dom for a long time. Most of them did not want to do chastity calls. They felt it was weird to take money for denying pleasure from guys who were calling for phone sex. I never looked at myself as a phone sex artist. It was always about FemDom and fetishes for me. I thrive on control. So chastity had great appeal to me.

Controlling your sexuality gives me a thrill. It’s the truth. In the power exchange, you give me permission to take control and that is exactly what I do. Someone asked me recently what was the longest I ever kept a man in chastity through my phone work. The answer was “well over a year”. Over the course of that year, I took that lucky chastity submissive to places he could not reach by himself. He gained deeper submission. He was able to lose himself in my power and control. Since I could see his face during our sessions, it was obvious that he floated in sub space in a state of nirvana.

Long Term Chastity

Perhaps you recoiled upon reading that I kept a man in chastity so long. So did that submissive. It took time and trust to reach a point where he felt completely comfortable putting his pleasure in my hands, so to speak.

First, I put him in chastity for 24 hours. Upon successful completion of that, he got a few days of freedom. Then he was in chastity for 3 days. So it went until he was begging me to lock him up for the rest of his life. That’s a tall order. I chose to lock him up with no specific release date in mind. Whenever I would ask him if he had had enough, he would whine, stammer and then beg me to keep him locked up. Sometimes his own words made him cry, but it’s what he truly wanted.

Chastity can make you feel like a young man again. Erections of steel. Feeling positively giddy with excitement and need. You can have that again. But you must be willing to let go and just be. Allow yourself to feel more, yearn more. If you can give up control to me and relax into being vulnerable, that is where your sex life will be revived. It is in your moments of vulnerability that the real pleasure of submission lives.

Chastity in Audios

I craft my erotic audios carefully. My background in the field of psychology comes into use often. My audios are aural works of art. The chastity audios, specifically, give you as close to a phone session experience with me as possible. Just my voice alone is seductive and teasing. And yet, it can become commanding in a heartbeat. As I paint a picture, you will be able to close your eyes and be in the moment with me.

You will almost feel the cage clicking shut, encasing your cock. I will be laughing softly as I mercilessly taunt you about how you can’t even touch yourself now. You will have zero doubt about who is in control.

I have a good variety of chastity erotic audios for you to choose from. Mesmerization, ASMR, Binaural, regular audios, and on a wide array of chastity topics. Click here to visit one of my audio shops.

I Will Own You

The ultimate denial of chastity is addictive. Remember, chastity can be a day or lengthy. And it does not have to involve a cage. For me, orgasm control is great fun. I want you to feel deliciously frustrated, helpless, desperate, and longing to stroke but not as much as you long to stay in chastity. I believe you will find chastity to be great fun, whether you choose to have a phone session or purchase my erotic audios.

I encourage you to leave a comment about your chastity experience or desires. Know that I will respond.

 

Chastity: Locked Up and Loving It

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