Why Men Want it
The truth is that sometimes they do not want it. Have never given it a thought. Or they thought about it and are afraid of chasitty. But then, somewhere along the way, things change in their mind.
Usually this change occurs because the guy develops a great Mistress/submissive relationship and wants to please his Mistress. He has seen that she is into chastity and decides that he wants to try it with her. I can almost always feel this particular moment approaching with a submissive.
Playing a Game
For some guys, being kept in chastity is a sort of game at first. Let’s play chastity! When I know that is true for you, I give you short chastity assignments of a few hours, a day, or a couple of days. To keep it fun for you, I include some mandatory stroking or porn viewing to rev things up. After all, I only get a short time to work within for this chastity game you are indulging in.
You will have fun. You have tried something new, gone a day longer than you ever went before, proved to yourself that you can go without a daily release. Yes, men, it is possible. *laughing* Chastity is the ultimate cock control and I revel in it.
Taking it Seriously
Perhaps for you, chastity is serious business. It is for me. You are the chastity submissives/slaves I enjoy most. Because I have been putting men and sissies into chastity for a long time. I derive a great deal of joy from the entire process from discussing the possibility to keeping you locked up longer and longer. You may already know that my two personal service slaves have been in permanent chastity for years.
I like discussing the initial chastity assignment, locking you in, giving you little assignments to make it easier, or much more difficult. Because I like to challenge my chastity submissives to stroking and edging assignments from time to time. It depends on you, your needs, and my mood. Yes, you are at the mercy of my whims. But I truly love it all!
Taking Chastity Further
Chastity devices come in a HUGE selection of shapes, materials, sizes, and comfort levels. You might prefer to begin with one which is made of silicone so it isn’t quite so severe. But if you have been involved in chastity for a long time, you will likely want something unrelenting like a steel cage with no way to touch your cock at all. I must admit that I have a fondness for those.
For those of you who appreciate the extreme, look at metal cages with a spike that goes into the tip of your cock. This is only for the advanced, serious chastity pets. But you might get a thrill out of looking at them and fantasizing about me locking you into something like like.
The Highest Form of Chastity
Though I adore the exciting finality of the clicking sound a cage makes as I lock your cock up tight…there is a form of chastity that thrills me even more. That is mental chastity. This is where you stay chaste out of devotion and respect to me.
You could touch your cock. Yes, you have the ability to stroke it. You might even have a release. But you don’t because you know how much it pleases me when you are are completely obediant during your chastity assignment. Be it one day…a week…a month…or more! Though it was not my idea in the beginning, my personal slaves’ devotion to permanent chastity has lit a fire in me.
Only for the Most Advanced
This is only for the most devoted of chastity slaves. Those who have the highest level of self control. Before engaging in a mental chastity relationship, I require a track record of you successfully completing a few traditional chastity assignments. Otherwise, I will be wondering if you are truly staying chaste.
Counting the Days You’ve Been Locked Up
I like to have you literally count the days you have completed in chastity. One of my dear chastity slaves of years ago came up with a fabulous method of doing this. He had a long strand of beads. One bead for every day he had been in chastity for me. He added one at the end of each day. I asked him what he enjoyed about this daily task. He told me that he got a deep sense of satisfaction from placing another bead on the strand. He enjoyed seeing the strand of beads get longer and longer. He would leave the strand of beads hanging where he couldo see it every day as a reminder of his state of chastity.
You might want to try something like this yourself for a wonderful visual of your success in chastity. It would be interesting to have a different color or shape of bead to cap off each week. Then you can look at the strand and see how many weeks you have been orgasm free for me. Mmmm…I just love that visual.
Time for Lock Down
If you know you can’t stay in chastity without a device, but are concerned you might let yourself out early…I have just the thing for you. There is a way to be securely locked up and you stay that way for the duration of your assignment. This method also offers the safety of knowing you can get out when it’s over. Intrigued? Give me a call to start the ball rolling with this. I would love to introduce you to this form of distance chastity!
For those of you who are in need of something to spice up your chastity, I have some ideas for you too. There are wonderful distance toys available that allow me to reach and “touch” you when I please. You can be firmly locked in your cage and I can send ripples of pleasure into your body, making your chastity a bigger challenge. I can also give you a little, or big, shock, to keep you in line and under no illusions about who controls you. Call me to discuss this.
Your Chastity Experience
Do you have experience with chastity? I want to hear about it. What worked for you? What did not go as expected? What would you like to have included in your next chastity assignment? Your Chastity Mistress needs to know these things!