Sparking Your Sex Life

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Your sex life with your partner is good, but you’ve been thinking it could use a little spicing up…something new.  Where to begin with that?  You may have experimented with power-exchange between you, sex toys, positions and role play.  Now imagine you have a couple friendly Mistress to guide your erotic exploration in a couples phone domination session.  A couples domination session is a revelation.

I have years of experience dominating couples by phone and on cam.  Even if you are not submissive, it can be very exciting to give up control and follow my directions.

How to Get Her on Board

This requires strategy and time.  You might have just one shot at getting her to agree to the first session, so your approach is everything.  If the first attempt to get her interested in a couples domination session is blown, she may shut down any future discussions on the topic.  Let me help you with that.  

Give me a call and let’s discuss this.  With your knowledge of her and my experience in this area, we can come up with a carefully thought out, fun plan to introduce her into the world of kink gently.  It’s important to take it slow and let things unfold naturally.

Couples Domination

You may be one of the lucky ones who have a partner who is open-minded and willing to try something new.  Even better!  You may be unsure of how to begin.  Tell her what’s happening, and call me when you two are together.  I enjoy talking with both of you.  I need to get a feel for who you are, what you have already done and what kind of kink you are interested in trying.  Once I know that, I provide move by move instructions, completely dominating the session.  Seeing you is best so I can direct you better through your hot, sexy session.

If she’s willing to be on cam with you..even better.  It helps me when I can see the action.  My directions can be more accurate and our interaction heightened.  I promise to make things comfortable for her.  I’m great at that.

Things to Have at Hand

These are a few things you may consider having close by for your couples domination session:

• Your sex toys, and hers…especially hers
• Collars for both of you (you will feel more submissive)
• Your web cam turned on (check the view to ensure it’s what you want)
• Some cool beverages to stay hydrated.  
• Two cool cloths
• Fun foods such as spray whip cream, honey, etc.
• A bowl of ice cubes
• Clamps or clothespins
• A blindfold or long scarf
• Handcuffs and key, or soft rope and scissors
• A paddle or crop
• If you are into medium to heavy pain play, have a cane and flogger ready

By no means do you need to have all of the above on hand.  These are suggestions.  This is your session.  Prepare as you like.  If there is something else you two enjoy together, or think would be fun, have that ready too.  Let me know you have it so I’m aware and can instruct you to use it.  

Activity Included

I will be guiding both of you.   Telling you to touch yourself, one another, spank here, suck there.  There are so many directions we can take a session like this.  Truly, our imaginations are the limit!  Here are the main categories:

• Interactive Sex
• Mutual Masturbation
• Voyeurism/Exhibitionism
• Discipline
• Spanking
• Pain Play
• Bondage
• Tickling
• Roleplay
• Fantasies

Again, this is your session.  Be upfront with me about what you two desire.  Know that I will create a session especially for the two of you.

Feedback From Couple

I have a couple who have called me for years now.  Here is what they had to say about their first couples domination session with me:

“I wanted to let you know that both my Mistress and I really enjoyed the call last night, on so many levels.  For me it was fascinating seeing the connections that came out between the two of you.  I saw that happening both around female power, but also on a spiritual level.  Mistress said that she felt your energy was really positive.   It recharged her and brought her to a to a good place.  We thank you again for a wonderful call and the ways you may help Mistress and me in future. ” 

Seven years later, they are still doing regular couple domination sessions with me.  Our dynamic has steadily improved and I have guided them through a wide variety of adventures.  All on cam by the way.  I’m sure you noted that these are with my submissive client and his Mistress/girlfriend.  I have so enjoyed this.

How to Begin

I invite you to send me a message on NiteFlirt with some information about yourself and your partner.  Tell me what you are looking for, the types of activities you want to begin with and anything you feel I should know in advance.  

Should you want to talk with me solo first, call me.  This is often a good idea as you may be a bit nervous or hesitant to bring up the subject with your lady.  I’ll walk you through that and answer any questions you have.

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