Submissive Men

Being a Submissive Man

Submissive men, also known as submissives or subs, are individuals who are drawn to a Dom/sub relationship dynamic.  This is where they willingly and consensually relinquish control to a dominant partner. This dynamic can manifest in many different ways.  It can be subtle symbolic gestures of submission to complete control over the submissive’s life.

Why are Some Men Submissive?

There are many reasons why a man may find himself drawn to submission. It could be that he enjoys the feeling of vulnerability and surrender.  Perhaps he derives pleasure from serving and pleasing his partner. It could also be a way to escape the pressure of being in control all the time.  Some submissie men want to explore different aspects of his sexuality and self-identity.

Regardless of the reasons behind the desire to submit, it is important for both partners to understand and respect each other’s boundaries and needs. Communication is key in any relationship, but it is especially important in a dynamic such as this.

Your Mistress’ Role

For a dominant partner, this means being aware of the responsibility that comes with holding power over another person.  It’s importnat to be sensitive to the needs and desires of the submissive partner. It also means giving the submissive space to express their thoughts and feelings.  Actively seek their input in decision-making processes.

These are responsibilities I take very seriously.  You put yourself in my hands and I want you to trust that I know what I’m doing and will care for you.

Your Role

For a submissive man, this means being honest about your desires and fears, and not being afraid to speak up when your boundaries are being pushed. It also means giving yourself the time and space you need to explore your submissive identity, and not feeling ashamed or weak for seeking out this dynamic.

You are not weak for being submissive.  Many Alpha men are secretly submissive in the bedroom.  For them, it is stress relief.

Submissive Men Being Fulfilled

Overall, the dynamic of a dominant/submissive relationship can be incredibly fulfilling for both partners if approached with care, communication, and mutual respect. It is important to remember that there is no one “right” way to be a submissive man.  Each individual has their own unique desires and boundaries. It is up to you and your partner to establish a relationship dynamic that works for both of you.

If you are on the fence about calling me, you may want to read more of my blog posts here.  Listen to some of my many erotic audios.  There are links to my audio stores here.  Get to know me so you feel comfortable about offering yourself to me as my submissive.